Self Sabotage
When the inside does not match
You already know the destination. Self sabotage is the inside still voting no. These articles look at why, and how to bring the two into agreement.
Self sabotage is not self-destruction. It is protection.
You already know the destination. The inside still votes no.
Your system spotted a threat and pulled the brake. Until you see the pattern, you will keep calling it a motivation problem.
These articles look at the brake. Why you get close and then undo it. What to do that does not involve shouting at yourself.
There is one full treatment live in this category so far, plus the tool that maps your pattern. More will land here. The magnet is ready now.
- ✦Why self-sabotage is a protection pattern, not a character flaw
- ✦How to see the brake before it wrecks the next good thing
- ✦A free pattern finder that names what is running
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